I'm here, trying to advise and help. This is probably best for first-time-mums, because that's what I am :) I'm not saying that second, third, fourth time-mums can't get anything from this, but you probably know it already. I'm NOT a doctor, I'm just offering advice and personal experiences that people may or may not want to learn from. I'm possibly controversial, I don't really know to be honest, but this is just what I think is best for me and my baby. This is created with the view of a mum-to-mum chat. If you're a Daddy looking things up, be warned there may be talk of vaginas that you may not want to know.

I recommend that because you get so many things thrust at you, by the hospital, by friends and family, books, internet...I would recommend you only research your current stage, and the next one, so you have advice for what you're going through, and what's coming next, otherwise you can get confused, think your baby is ready for something that they're not. I've included a search bar where you can search for the stage you want so it won't be too confusing.

Mum to one beautiful baby girl.

Monday 6 January 2014

Baby: 3-6 months: Weaning

There's not much else I've gone through to say, so I'm probably going to only blog once a week or so from now on.

So I'm normally one to tell you don't listen to everything the health professionals tell you as gospel, but with weaning, wait until 17 weeks. We tried our little one on solids at 16 weeks and she was not interested. Exactly one week later she was much more interested about it.

Don't start your baby on baby rice. It's boring. Our little one was not bothered about it. It's one of the easiest things because its so close to her milk, but I could clearly see on her face, why am I not just getting this in a bottle? The first thing you should try her on is banana. Babies LOVE banana. It is really easy for you too, you don't need to cook it, it's cheaper than a jar, really easy to mash.

Your baby will let you know when (s)he is ready for solids. (s)he lets you know by staring at you when you eat. (s)he will watch every mouthful and (s)he starts to get really excited. (s)he may wave her arms, (s)he may open and close her mouth in time to yours. You will know when your baby is getting ready for solids. They officially advise you to start solids if they start to see a slight weight drop at the clinic, which would mean (s)he isn't getting all (s)he needs from her bottle. You will also notice that (s)he isn't satisfied by the bottle and may want more and more milk. I do not advocate using stage 2 "hungry baby" formula to stave off solids. Our parents were advised to start babies on solids at 4 months not 6, and sometimes even still started early. I think we started our baby too early on solids, however, and I would like to suggest that, once you feel your baby is ready for solids, you wait 2 weeks before you give her it.

It will of course help if you like banana, so you can finish what (s)he doesn't have. Baby food jars have really come along in recent years, but it will always be better for you to prepare her food for her, you will know exactly what's in it, no preservatives or anything